<p class="ql-block"> 總策劃：文浩</p><p class="ql-block"> 文案撰寫：萍萍（管理員）</p><p class="ql-block"> 審核：美友圈小助手</p><p class="ql-block"> 圖片：一張自拍 四張來(lái)自網(wǎng)絡(luò)</p> <p class="ql-block"> 金秋十月，舉國(guó)同慶。神州大地處處洋溢著喜迎國(guó)慶的歡騰氣息，山河壯麗，紅旗漫卷，共赴這盛世之約，同賀祖國(guó)華誕。十月的風(fēng)，裹挾著桂香與清爽，吹走夏日燥熱。陽(yáng)光變得溫柔，透過(guò)枝葉灑下斑駁光影，天朗氣清，恰好適配一場(chǎng)關(guān)于生活的深度對(duì)話。</p><p class="ql-block"> 值此良辰，我們團(tuán)隊(duì)迎來(lái)一周年。借國(guó)慶東風(fēng)，10月12日將開啟 “融情化隙” 話題討論活動(dòng)。生活百般滋味，矛盾亦藏?zé)熁鹬腔?，誠(chéng)邀美友們踴躍參與！一同剖析生活褶皺，分享解法，在交流里共情成長(zhǎng)，讓這個(gè)十月，因思維碰撞而格外閃耀，共赴這場(chǎng)溫暖且有意義的相聚。</p> <p class="ql-block"> 一、活動(dòng)時(shí)間：</p><p class="ql-block"> 2025年10月12日0.00開始至2025年10月18日24.00結(jié)束，共七天時(shí)間。</p> <p class="ql-block"> 二、活動(dòng)規(guī)則：</p><p class="ql-block"> 1、參與活動(dòng)解決分享生活的矛盾。請(qǐng)您打開美篇APP，在美友圈搜索[生活矛盾群眾評(píng)理委員會(huì)]美友圈→“討論”置頂處跟帖。查看跟貼老師們分享的內(nèi)容，參與管理團(tuán)隊(duì)發(fā)起的話題討論。以這樣的方式為陷入生活矛盾的美友出謀劃策。</p><p class="ql-block"> 討論內(nèi)容如下：</p><p class="ql-block"> 1.凡爾賽老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9p5j7&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=305212186&uuid=13c48b8f718aa3334f898ba4e9f64e3e&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=305212186&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=b7cb022146ab6cdb301bb7dbadb871ca&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9p5j7&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=305212186&uuid=13c48b8f718aa3334f898ba4e9f64e3e&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=305212186&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=b7cb022146ab6cdb301bb7dbadb871ca&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagesinglemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">1?：在超市里排隊(duì)買雞蛋，總遇到有人插隊(duì)挑好的，想制止又怕起沖突，我該怎么說(shuō)讓對(duì)方可以自覺排隊(duì)而不起沖突呢？</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 2.冷韻追魂老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9xklt&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9xklt&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagesinglemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">2??.子女買“高價(jià)保健器材”寄回家，說(shuō)“對(duì)父母身體好”，但自己用不慣還占地方，又不想辜負(fù)子女心意，如何委婉說(shuō)明“實(shí)用比價(jià)格重要”？</a></p><p class="ql-block"> <span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">3.桅子花香老師的話題</span><a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fart7m&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=305212186&uuid=13c48b8f718aa3334f898ba4e9f64e3e&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=305212186&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=b7cb022146ab6cdb301bb7dbadb871ca&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagehttp://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fart7m&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=305212186&uuid=13c48b8f718aa3334f898ba4e9f64e3e&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=305212186&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=b7cb022146ab6cdb301bb7dbadb871ca&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">3??:老人因擔(dān)心給子女添麻煩、害怕生病花錢，而隱瞞自身需求或病情，這種心理背后反映了什么問(wèn)題？家人該如何引導(dǎo)老人放下顧慮、主動(dòng)表達(dá)需求？</a></p><p class="ql-block"> <span style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">4.澄江飛霞老師的話題</span><a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=farrim&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=305212186&uuid=13c48b8f718aa3334f898ba4e9f64e3e&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=305212186&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=b7cb022146ab6cdb301bb7dbadb871ca&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagehttp://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=farrim&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=305212186&uuid=13c48b8f718aa3334f898ba4e9f64e3e&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=305212186&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=b7cb022146ab6cdb301bb7dbadb871ca&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">4??老伙計(jì)們?cè)谛^(qū)活動(dòng)室下棋，總有人忍不住在旁邊支招插話。大家想清凈下棋，可又不想傷了鄰里和氣，有啥不尷尬的應(yīng)對(duì)辦法嗎？</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 5.微笑老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9p46e&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9p46e&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagesinglemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">5??，老人因“子女長(zhǎng)期在外工作、缺乏陪伴”而產(chǎn)生不滿情緒，甚至故意制造小麻煩吸引關(guān)注，子女該如何平衡工作與陪伴，化解這種情緒？</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 6.風(fēng)向標(biāo)老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9rez4&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9rez4&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagesinglemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">6??.部分老人對(duì)養(yǎng)老院、存在抵觸心理，認(rèn)為“去養(yǎng)老院就是被子女拋棄”，這種觀念該如何引導(dǎo)轉(zhuǎn)變？</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 7.雄鷹展翅老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fa1y4i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fa1y4i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagesinglemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">7??.鄰居在陽(yáng)臺(tái)上飼養(yǎng)鴿子，鴿子到處飛，糞便臭氣熏天，嚴(yán)重影響了公共環(huán)境，大家遇到過(guò)類似情況嗎？該如何與鄰居溝通協(xié)商解決？或通過(guò)哪些合法途徑維護(hù)權(quán)益，同時(shí)避免矛盾激化，歡迎各位老師們分享經(jīng)驗(yàn)和建議。</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 8.0707老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9qml4&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagehttp://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9qml4&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">8??想約老同事一起開車去看單位舊址拍照留念，子女擔(dān)心路況不好想陪同，咋溝通能讓他們放心自己和同事出行？</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 9.新雨老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9q18i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagehttp://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9q18i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">9??【矛盾】退休后遇到攀比導(dǎo)致心里不舒服，甚至引發(fā)矛盾，該如何處理？請(qǐng)大家結(jié)合自身經(jīng)歷，談?wù)動(dòng)龅竭^(guò)哪些攀比情況，具體是怎么應(yīng)對(duì)和化解的，以及如何調(diào)整心態(tài)做到不羨慕、不焦慮，同時(shí)把自己的退休生活過(guò)得舒</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 10.XWQ老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9ptix&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9ptix&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagesinglemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">??家族祭祀傳統(tǒng)活動(dòng)，晚輩提議簡(jiǎn)化流程采用線上形式，長(zhǎng)輩看重線下儀式傳承，如何商議讓祭祀既有心意又適配時(shí)代？</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 11.吳灶民老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9p1iq&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagehttp://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9p1iq&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">1??1??當(dāng)老人與保姆、護(hù)工在服務(wù)內(nèi)容、相處方式產(chǎn)生摩擦?xí)r，家人應(yīng)如何協(xié)調(diào)雙方需求，保證老人的生活質(zhì)量？</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 12.萍萍老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9qxgg&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9qxgg&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagesinglemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">1??2??老兩口退休后各參加了團(tuán)隊(duì)活動(dòng)，回家都喊累，一方想少做家務(wù)，另一方堅(jiān)持家務(wù)得平等分擔(dān)，為此鬧了矛盾，該用啥方法化解？</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 13.長(zhǎng)流水老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fchokp&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagehttp://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=fchokp&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">1?3?編寫社區(qū)“老年生活回憶錄”，有人想突出集體奉獻(xiàn)，有人想寫個(gè)人小美好，咋平衡內(nèi)容讓回憶更豐滿？</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 14.秀春老師的話題<a href="http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9pi7i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=http://www.yizhoumo.com/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=f9pi7i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=32129457&uuid=780d2e1adec21f75b8e832933b8602d0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=32129457&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=bec3b2c33f80c327fcf93408c9dfb4b1&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessagesinglemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">1??4?? 小區(qū)內(nèi)有業(yè)主私下頻繁燃放煙花炮竹，其他業(yè)主多次向社區(qū)反映并與其溝通，卻屢教不改，為了保障公共安全，該如何有效制止其行為？是否采取強(qiáng)制措施？請(qǐng)老師們支招。</a></p><p class="ql-block"> 2、跟帖要求：討論前綴[矛盾]N0.1，呢稱，美篇號(hào)，根據(jù)話題聊您想到的妙招。</p><p class="ql-block"> 要求：文字描述字?jǐn)?shù)要求120字以上，并搭配與話題討論有關(guān)的的圖片，體裁不限，以您的睿智為陷入矛盾的美友支招。</p><p class="ql-block"> 3、活動(dòng)期間請(qǐng)?jiān)谟懻搮^(qū)主持人或管理員置頂處跟帖，非參與本推文置頂處的討論，無(wú)緣獎(jiǎng)項(xiàng)評(píng)比。</p> <p class="ql-block"> 三、獎(jiǎng)項(xiàng)沒置：</p><p class="ql-block"> 本次獎(jiǎng)項(xiàng)以美友圈跟貼質(zhì)量判定，判定標(biāo)準(zhǔn)為：</p><p class="ql-block"> 是否根據(jù)討論貼引發(fā)的討論，是否對(duì)解決老有所樂(lè)矛盾有實(shí)質(zhì)的幫助？評(píng)選也會(huì)結(jié)合回帖點(diǎn)贊、被回復(fù)的數(shù)量來(lái)看數(shù)據(jù)僅作為參考，不作為唯一的評(píng)選標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，判定標(biāo)準(zhǔn)以跟帖與話題是否符合為基本判定要求。</p><p class="ql-block"> 1.參與話題討論獎(jiǎng)：</p><p class="ql-block"> 活動(dòng)期間參與所有話題討論（主帖與副帖在內(nèi)的14條活題），且根據(jù)活動(dòng)話題回復(fù)或發(fā)表“化解矛盾”的觀點(diǎn)，跟帖內(nèi)容符合討論話題，跟帖優(yōu)質(zhì)，按照跟帖要求跟帖的美友：</p><p class="ql-block"> 1∽10名頒發(fā)“喜顏調(diào)解”獎(jiǎng)美篇電子證書，888花瓣獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)。</p><p class="ql-block"> 11∽30名頒發(fā)“樂(lè)心調(diào)解”獎(jiǎng)美篇電子證書，666花瓣獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)。</p><p class="ql-block"> 31∽150名頒發(fā)“康韻調(diào)解”獎(jiǎng)美篇電子證書，116花瓣獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)。</p><p class="ql-block"> 2、活動(dòng)組織策劃獎(jiǎng)：</p><p class="ql-block"> 管理員、評(píng)論員、特約顧問(wèn)老師協(xié)助主持人文浩做好活動(dòng)期間的數(shù)據(jù)統(tǒng)計(jì)與日常維護(hù)，積極與跟帖美友互動(dòng)?；顒?dòng)結(jié)束后頒發(fā)“暖情共濟(jì)”獎(jiǎng)美篇電子證書，999花瓣。</p> <p class="ql-block"> 四、本次活動(dòng)組織成員：</p><p class="ql-block"> [生活矛盾群眾評(píng)理委員會(huì)]管理團(tuán)隊(duì)</p><p class="ql-block"> 五、注意事項(xiàng)：</p><p class="ql-block"> 1、圖片來(lái)自網(wǎng)絡(luò)，轉(zhuǎn)發(fā)請(qǐng)備。</p><p class="ql-block"> 2、發(fā)起跟貼內(nèi)容需符合[生活矛盾群眾評(píng)理委員會(huì)]美友圈的話題，跟帖內(nèi)容需積極友好，具有正能量。負(fù)能量留評(píng)美友圈管理團(tuán)隊(duì)評(píng)估鑒定后將上報(bào)美篇領(lǐng)導(dǎo)刪除或拉黑。</p><p class="ql-block"> 3、獎(jiǎng)項(xiàng)若重復(fù)，將以最好獎(jiǎng)項(xiàng)為主。若無(wú)合適人選，將空缺。</p><p class="ql-block"> 跟帖聊話題，關(guān)鍵在敞開心扉分享妙招。你帶著生活里的實(shí)踐經(jīng)驗(yàn)來(lái)，我揣著親身體驗(yàn)過(guò)的解決辦法來(lái)，把那些化解矛盾的巧思路、日常找樂(lè)子的好點(diǎn)子都亮出來(lái)。你可以說(shuō)“這個(gè)妙招我試過(guò)，這樣做挺管用”，也可以講“遇到類似情況，我是這么處理的”。每一條真誠(chéng)的分享都帶著生活的溫度，每一個(gè)實(shí)在的建議都藏著實(shí)用的價(jià)值。熱誠(chéng)歡迎所有美友老師們都來(lái)支招，咱們你一言我一語(yǔ)，在交流里攢經(jīng)驗(yàn)、學(xué)本事，讓討論有干貨、有意義，這才是參加討論最實(shí)在的收獲。</p>